Lots of us in business need to network. If your anything like me, you will avoid this painful experience and discount it as having no value. Well its actually time to change.
3 months ago I joined a network group of like minded business people with the sole intent of getting new customers. Within 2 minutes I realised how bad I was at this. However the group has helped me and here are a few “do not do” pointers.
To be successful at networking requires planning:
Make “what you do?” your third or fourth question.It is always best to chat and break the ice first. By asking “what do you do?” it pigeon-holes or categorises people too quickly
Job titles only soothe your ego. People are actually more interested in what you do than who you are. It might sound good to be a lawyer, accountant or Company Director, but its the qualities you display that really counts.
You are there to Network, so network. Most people find this uncomfortable so try to avoid going with a colleague. If you do split up. If you don’t you may create a barrier and put people off talking to you. You can even stand alone in the middle of the room, this will give everyone else the signal that you are free to talk too. Stand proud though.
Groups are bad for networking. Networking works best one 2 one, this will also allow others to join your group.
Sell yourself first. People are there to network with you. Not your card or web site. When someone asks about your business that is the time to shine. You are allowed to talk briefly about your Company. Have a short 60 seconds ready. You can practise this at home. People will only listen to a small portion of the words you say, they will connect more with your body language, so be confident and stand proud. Anything more than 60 seconds and we all start to get bored.
Business cards. Always have plenty with you and ask the other person if they would like 2, in case they want to pass it onto a colleague. Only ever except a business card if they agree to take yours in exchange.
Go to the bar for a drink, not a networking event. Whatever you may think, networking works better without alcohol. Keep a clear head and make the best impression. You only make a first impression once.
Quick tips:
Don’t interrupt a stranger having a conversation to network under any circumstances.
Don’t dismiss yourself from a conversation to talk to someone more interesting
Don’t dismiss yourself from a conversation simply because someone has a service you’re not interested in.
Don’t hand out business cards until you are properly introduced
Never take phone calls in the middle of a conversation. Best to turn your phone off before you start.
Introduce yourself to each person if conversing with a group of people. Shake hands.
Don’t monopolise the entire conversation under any circumstances.
If there is someone you know is going to the event, prepare what you want to tell them. Search on google and find out what they do so as you can sound knowledgable about their Company.